There is a beauty, it is not to be underestimated, is the beauty of distance, this beauty is a natural outpouring, natural structure, catalytic nature. From the world of everything has beauty, when you really look, you will see the beautiful, sublime. Hill and mountain beauty, beauty of the sea and the sea beauty, the beauty of houses and buildings, trees and trees. Whether in or around your side, there is a presence of the United States, from the beauty of harmony, from the dignified and solemn beauty. Everything will tell you everything fresh and new. Like so Zhaxian immersive, natural.
Regardless of far and near, near and sparse, there is a kind of beauty distance. Grass and grass beauty, intimacy Mimi flowers and flower embellishment, fish and water, in order to constitute ecology and plant beautiful harmony and coexistence.
People, too, there is no certain distance, will mutual exclusion, jealousy, and even suspicion. Among trusted friends, but as independent individuals, they must have their own independent living space, enjoy each other much better. Do not get too close, too close will have differences, between the lips and teeth like there must be touching the root causes. Then pro-people, but also have their own space, once this space is not, it will generate a sense of suffocation depressed. Like a good writer San Mao said:. "A friend close again, lost sense of proportion can be poor, since that cooked, raw results of the anti-isolation" So many things on earth, all because of a short distance before the brink of troubles. Because too close, too familiar, too know each other, which leads to a friend break or split. Between friends have scale, and more to be measured, mishandled, it will be counterproductive, and even lead to love fades, becomes never.
It is between couples and lovers, as well. Must give each other a space of the mind, not forcing too, have far sparse and near the points. Let beauty that distance in between each set up a beautiful bridge heart, constituting the most beautiful scenery. Like ordinary people that good, "things are not always the best." It"s a give and desire, it is a beautiful luxury. Young men and women regardless of being in love, or far apart couples, all in need of such beauty, it is a sad beauty, the beauty of Acacia, are thinking about each other worrying about each other, the distance dilute their own shortcomings, just thinking other benefits. The beauty of this distance, is the interpretation of the beauty of the soul distance, passion glamor attempt.
Beauty of Distance, not only here, but also between the children and their parents, there is also a kind of beauty. Children are the heart of flesh parents all want their children to breath people. But some parents think their children tied beside sit back and relax, may be so, not only do not help the child, but also delay the child"s development. The child is an independent individual, not too far involved in the child"s space, not considered to treat the child love and care is good for children, it is the most intolerable. Children from birth, is a separate entity, with its own hopes and dreams. Remember that parents do not indulge the child, that is the most terrible, how many children go astray, not all parents spoiled, want is seeking to lead to a big mistake. Between parents and children, there must be a certain distance from the grasp, it is the child"s blessings. Let the kids have their own space for development. Let them free ride. Like there is an interesting story. "Eagle exercise on the cliff is not yet ripe Kitty, Kitty Hawk in the case of the wings have not grown up, you mouth picked up the cliff to throw to Kitty, Kitty will not fly themselves, you can be killed Instead forcing Kitty wings to fly. "We parents must have this spirit, not too spoiled child, give the child a flying wings space, not to bind them, I do not think that the next child fell on his wings is care, it is the most terrible, every child has to ride the stage, that they own to dance, to dance Pina.
Regardless of friendship, love, affection should distance the United States, grip too tightly as the sand in hand, will be lost. To unclamp freely, just the right kind of propriety, is beautiful distance, and figure out a good, that is, do not have a beautiful landscape, just the right good, it will be more effective. No matter what you are doing, there is a distance of the United States, the United States measured, the scale and frequency of the master, and there is a beautiful space adjacent. Beauty distance to a definition, right? Beautiful landscape, just in front of you, how do you go to the layout of the election scene, it depends on you, and then beautiful things, but also a beauty of distance, do not you think?
有一种美，那是不可小觑的，就是距离之美，这种美是一种自然的流露，自然的构成，自然的催化。世间的万事万物都有距离之美，当你用心观察时，就会见到美不胜收，美妙绝伦。山与山的美，海与海的美，房屋与房屋的美，树木和树木之间的美。不论在你的身旁还是左右，都有一种存在的美，距离美的和谐，距离美的凝重和庄严。一切的一切都会叫你耳目一新。就象身临其境般那么的乍现，自然。
不论远和近，近和疏，都有一种距离的美。小草与小草的美，花与花点缀之美，鱼和水的亲密之美，才能构成生态与植物美的和谐和共处。
人与人，也是如此，没有一定距离，就会相互的排挤、妒忌，最后甚至猜疑。朋友之间可以信赖，但作为独立的个人，就要有自己独立的生活空间，要远远地相互欣赏更好。不要离得太近，太近了就会有分歧，就象唇与齿之间，必定有相碰的根由。再亲的人，也要有各自的空间，一旦这空间没有了，就会产生窒息的郁闷感。就象作家三毛说的好：“朋友再亲密，分寸又可差失，自以为熟，结果反生隔离。”所以说，世间上许多的事，都因为距离太近，才频临烦恼。因为太近，太熟悉，太了解对方，才导致朋友的决裂或分道扬镳。朋友之间也要尺度，也更要分寸，把握不好，就会适得其反，甚至导致情变淡，变没。
就是夫妻和恋人之间，也是如此。都要给对方一个心灵的空间，不要逼得太近，要有远疏和近之分。让那距离之美，在各自心间架起一座美丽的桥，构成最美的风景。就象常人说的好，“得不到的东西永远是的。”那是一种给予和渴望，是一种美丽的奢求。不论正在谈恋爱的青年男女，还是天各一方的夫妻，都需要这种美，那是一种心酸的美，相思的美，都在相互牵肠挂肚想着对方，是距离淡化了各自的缺点，只是想着对方的好处。这种距离的美，是心灵美距离的诠释，是激情魅力的尝试。
距离之美，不仅在这里，而且在孩子与父母间，也存在着一种美。孩子都是父母的心头之肉，都想让自己的孩子出息人。但有的父母自以为把孩子栓在身旁，就高枕无忧了，可这样，不但帮不了孩子，还耽误了孩子的发展。孩子都是一个独立的个体，不要太过份涉入孩子的空间，更不要认为对待孩子呵护备至，就是对孩子好，那是最要不得的。孩子从一出生，就是一个独立的个体，都有自己的希望和梦想。父母切记别放纵孩子，那是最要命的，多少孩子走入歧途，不都是父母的娇惯，欲所欲为酿成大错的。父母和孩子间，要有一定的距离，距离把握好，那是对孩子的福分。要让孩子有自己的发展空间。让他们自由的驰骋。就象有一则耐人寻味的故事。 “老鹰在山崖上锻炼还未成熟的小鹰，在小鹰翅膀还没有长大的情况下，就用嘴叼起小鹰往山崖下丢去，小鹰不会自己飞，就可能被摔死。而是逼着小鹰展翅飞起来。”我们父母都要有这种精神，不要太溺爱孩子，要给孩子一个飞翔展翅的空间，不要去束缚他们，不要认为把孩子伏在自己的翅膀下，就是呵护，那是最要命的，每个孩子都有驰骋的舞台，叫他们自己去舞蹈，去翩舞。
不论友情、爱情、亲情都要美的距离，握得太紧就象握在手中的沙子，会流失。要松放自如，那种分寸的拿捏，就是距离之美，拿捏好了，就是别有一番美丽的风景，拿捏不好，就会事半功倍。无论你在做什么，都有距离之美，分寸之美，尺度和频率掌握好了，就有美丽的空间毗邻。给距离之美下个定义吧?靓丽的风景，就在你的面前，你怎样去铺排，选景，那就要看你的了，再美的东西，也要有距离之美，你不觉得吗?
