一、一步一微笑，一步一伤心，一步一劫难，尽管记忆再悲伤，我却笑着，不愿遗忘。有些风景只能喜欢却不能收藏，就像有些人只适合遇见，却不适合久伴。有些人，会一直刻在记忆里，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
Smile step by step, sad step by step, disaster step by step, although the memory is sad again, I laugh, do not want to forget. Some scenery can only be liked but can not be collected, just like some people are only suitable for meeting, but not for long-term companionship. Some people, will always be engraved in memory, even if they forget his voice, his smile and his face, but whenever they think of him, the feeling will never change.
二、 真正的坚韧，应该是哭的时候要彻底，笑的时候要开怀，说的时候要淋漓尽致，做的时候毫不犹豫。我们可以没有繁华城市、汽车和竞争对手。但不能丢弃阳光、空气、露水和心中的原始森林。Real toughness should be thorough when crying, happy when laughing, incisive when speaking and without hesitation when doing. We can have no busy cities, cars and competitors. But we can abandon the sunshine, air, dew and the primitive forest in our hearts.
三、勇敢的做自己，不要为任何人而改变。如果他们不能接受最差的你，也不配拥有最好的你。当你满怀期待奇迹的时候，现实总是给你致命一击，所以失望是常态，但愿我们都能够披荆斩棘，活出自己想要的样子。Be yourself bravely and don change for anyone. If they can accept the worst of you, they don deserve the best of you. When you are full of expectations of miracles, reality always gives you a fatal blow, so disappointment is normal, I hope we can overcome the difficulties and live the way we want.
四、缘分，聚散如云；人心，冷暖难觅；感情，动心伤情。其实没有什么过不去，过不去的只是自己的心。 回忆再美也只是曾经，再也回不去；结束了就是结束了，该继续的还得继续。人不能因为感情而失去自己，更不能为了失去而没了感情。Fate, gathering and scattering like clouds; peoples hearts, cold and warm difficult to find; emotions, moving mood. In fact, there is nothing that can go through, its just your heart that can go through. Memory is only once, never go back; the end is the end, the continuation must continue. People can lose themselves because of their feelings, let alone lose their feelings for the sake of losing them.
五、有些风景再美丽，不属于自己的不必太刻意，有些剧情再入胜，自己不是主角不必太入戏。缘分的失去是别离，也是选择的再继续；感情的失去是放弃，也是放下的一种智慧。Some scenery is beautiful again, do not belong to their own need not be too deliberate, some plots are winning again, they are not protagonists need not be too involved in the play. The loss of fate is parting, but also the continuation of choice; the loss of feelings is to give up, but also to put down a wisdom.
六、用智慧去观照命运当中的焦躁不安，迷茫彷徨，纠正那些消极错误的偏执，用一种积极向上的思维，通过对世间的观察与接触，对命运用一种崭新的思考和认识，引导命运向前的方向或者是一种向前的状态。Use wisdom to look at the restlessness and confusion of fate, correct the paranoia of those negative mistakes, use a positive thinking, through the observation and contact of the world, use a brand-new thinking and understanding of fate, guide the fate forward direction or a forward state.
七、其实根本就没有能降住你的人，不是他有多好，只是你甘愿在他面前低头，长久的陪伴里，一定是我们在吵吵闹闹中，慢慢学会了，大发脾气后再重新拥抱。In fact, there is no one who can stop you, not how good he is, but you are willing to bow your head in front of him, long-term companionship, it must be in the noisy, slowly learn, lose your temper and then embrace again.
八、与永远的快乐或地域里永远的沸油相比，六十年的考验算什么？每个人都有一场爱恋，用心，用情，用力，感动也感伤。我真希望时光永远停留在此刻，有谁知道下一钟头的命运会怎样呢？What is the test of sixty years compared with eternal happiness or eternal boiling oil in a region? Everyone has a love, with heart, with emotion, with force, moving and sentimental. I really hope time stays at this moment forever. Who knows what will happen in the next hour?
九、生命中总有那么一段时光，充满不安，可是除了勇敢面对，我们别无选择。曾经以为，所有的告别，都是美丽的。我们相拥著痛哭，我们互相祝福，在人生以后的岁月里，永远彼此怀念，思忆常存。然而，现实的告别却粗糙许多。There is a time in life that is full of uneasiness. We have no other choice but to face it.. I used to think that all farewells were beautiful. We embrace each other and cry bitterly. We bless each other. In the years after our lives, we will always miss each other and remember each other forever. However, the actual farewell is much rough.
十、如果一个人记得你的生日，记得你喜欢什么讨厌什么，把你不经意说过的话都放在心上，为你无数次影响情绪却从来不让你看到他脆弱的样子，为你做他不喜欢的事，为你放下面子放下所谓的原则放下他的一切，为你改掉坏脾气，为你拒绝所有暧昧，为你变得面目全非，这个才是真正爱你的人。If a person remembers your birthday, remembers what you like and hate, cares about what you say inadvertently, influences your mood countless times but never lets you see his fragile appearance, does things he does not like for you, puts down the so-called principles for you, puts down everything for you, changes bad temper for you, refuses all ambiguities for you, and becomes your face. Not at all. This is the one who really loves you.
十一、离别后是一首美丽的歌，它总是在高潮之后展现它的美，总是在哭泣之后告诉你它的情。离别后总是想起离别时的你，离别后才知道什么才应该珍惜，离别很后伤，但是教会了很多人生应该知道的道理。所以离别后很伤，但是很美!After parting is a beautiful song, it always shows its beauty after the climax, always tells you its feelings after crying. After leaving, always think of you at the time of departure. After leaving, we know what we should cherish. It hurts after leaving, but it teaches us a lot of truth that we should know in life. So it hurts after parting, but its beautiful!
十二、读懂是一种过客，放下是一种明白，理解是一种苍老，回首是一种安排，读懂的心，藏着太多委屈，藏着太多的苦水，情眼看人，人去心空，总是敲响最后的失去。
Reading is a kind of passer-by, letting go is a kind of understanding, understanding is an old, looking back is an arrangement, reading the heart, hiding too much grievance, hiding too much bitterness, love eye, empty heart, always sounds the last loss.
十三、少和让你生气的人在一起，少和事多的人在一起，少和不懂感恩的人在一起，少和敷衍你的人在一起，少和谎话连篇的人在一起，让自己多活几年。
Less with people who make you angry, less with people who have more things, less with people who don know how to be grateful, less with people who perfunctory, less with people who lie, and more years to live.
十四、总有那么一个地方，一个人，让你心动，留恋不已。总有那么一个人，一句对不起，让你心痛，刻骨铭心。There is always a place, a person, let you heart, nostalgia. There will always be one person, a word of sorry, let your heart ache, unforgettable.
十五、你要记住，欺负别人和养活自己，你都得自己来。成长，带走的不只是时光，还带走了当初那些不害怕失去的勇气。Remember, bully others and feed yourself, you have to come by yourself. Growing up takes not only time, but also courage that wasn afraid of losing.
十六、心为什么会痛，因为情动了如果情不动，心还会痛吗？我不以一个人爬得多高来衡量他的成功，而是看他跌到谷底時能反弹多高。Why does the heart ache, because if the mood does not move, will the heart still ache? I don measure a mans success by how high he climbs, but how high he bounces when he falls to the bottom.
十七、真正的园丁从来是不会在意花开的时间的，他们知道每种花都有自己的特点，只是开花的早晚不同。铁树开花是人间奇观，一株幼苗，从栽培到开花需要十几年到几十年，而且花期长达一个月以上。Real gardeners never care about the time of blooming. They know that each flower has its own characteristics, but the time of blooming is different. The blooming of iron tree is a wonder of the world. It takes more than ten to several decades for a seedling to blossom from cultivation, and the blooming period lasts for more than a month.
十八、有时候会感觉身边充满了朋友，但有些时候我们又显得那么的孤单，想找人说说话，拿起手机竟然不知道该找谁。做一个淡淡的女子，不浮不躁，不争不抢，不去计较浮华之事，不是不追求，只是不去强求。淡然地过着自己的生活，不要轰轰烈烈，只求安安心心。Sometimes it feels like we are surrounded by friends, but sometimes we seem so lonely, looking for someone to talk to, picking up the mobile phone and wondering who to look for. To be a light woman, not impetuous, not contending, not caring about flashy things, not pursuing, just not demanding. Live your life indifferently. Don be vigorous, just be at ease.
