人生在世，拼到最后会发现，一生的得失都抵不过一个好的心态。
In the end, you will find that the gains and losses of your life can equal a good state of mind.
男性对这些罕见的现象也表达了理解。而且，这种现象并非绝对普遍。
Men also expressed their understanding of these rare phenomena. Moreover, this phenomenon is not absolutely universal.
人生是短暂的，要经常学会让自己的心去虚度。人往往心烦意乱，最终是被自己的心态所拖累。
Life is short. You should often learn to let your heart waste it. People are often upset and are eventually dragged down by their own mentality.
在婚姻中，依附的爱非常自私。以爱之名，吞噬爱人，自己却停止生长。
In marriage, attached love is very selfish. Devour your lover in the name of love, but you stop growing.
真爱你的人，会像你一样急切地在一起，又怎么会过分地顾前考虑？
People who really love you will be together as eagerly as you. How can they think too much?
女性在感情上，永远不必过于懂事，过分了解男人的内心。
Women never have to be too sensible and understand mens hearts too much.
事实上，这个现实社会中，没有人是不可缺少的残酷。
In fact, in this real society, no one is indispensable cruelty.
有多少次，我故意让自己忙起来，或是不再想你。
How many times have I deliberately kept myself busy or stopped thinking about you.
男人并非不珍惜她，而是会与不爱金钱的女人相处得很累。没人愿意在生活中增加一个人后，时时精神紧张，憔悴不堪。
Men don cherish her, but get along very tired with women who don love money. No one wants to be nervous and haggard after adding one person to his life.
在享受你的温柔时，消耗你的真心。
When enjoying your tenderness, consume your heart.
此生，一直追求快乐，快乐却很少。始终追求的是真情实感，真情却难得。
In this life, I have been pursuing happiness, but there is little happiness. Always pursue the true feelings, but the true feelings are rare.
