成功者，从不显山露水。
A winner never shows off.
事实上大可不必，一个人若是自己不爱自己，那就不要指望别人会对你好。时光流逝，你的牺牲反而会惯坏身边的人，让他们理所当然地认为，你应该成为被忽视的那个。
In fact, its unnecessary. If a person doesn love himself, don expect others to treat you. As time goes by, your sacrifice will spoil the people around you and make them take it for granted that you should be ignored.
心里想着一个人的同时，深知自己的心也像自己一般的真诚深情，那种感觉，是遇到对的人才会有的一种踏实的感觉。
While thinking of a person in your heart, you know that your heart is also as sincere and affectionate as yourself. That feeling is a down-to-earth feeling when you meet the right person.
人生中，有这样一种人，只为了赚钱，却舍不得为自己花钱。偶然给自己买衣服，也要自责好久，说白了，就是觉得自己不配过更好的生活。
In life, there is such a kind of person, just to make money, but unwilling to spend money for himself. If you buy clothes for yourself occasionally, you have to blame yourself for a long time. To put it bluntly, you just feel that you don deserve a better life.
可人到中年后，大多都有了自己的家，正处在少有老少，也正是需要钱的时候。
But when people reach middle age, most of them have their own homes. They are in a time when few people, old and young, need money.
从现在起，愿你学会平静的心情，看淡得与失，练出一颗淡定从容的心，开心的事，看一看美丽的风景。
From now on, may you learn to be calm, look down on gains and losses, refine a calm and calm heart, do happy things and have a look at the beautiful scenery.
你们根本就没有想过，万一他决定离开你的话，你们会怎样生存？您是否给自己留了退路？
You never thought about how you would survive if he decided to leave you? Have you left yourself a way out?
