一、 最能反映女人品味的，不是她的衣着、爱好，也不是她开的车、看的书、家里的装饰，而是她爱上一个怎样的男人。即使她在其他方面品味优雅，若爱上一个差劲的男人，便功亏一篑。不是所有的离婚都是因为劈腿出轨或者争吵背叛，大部分婚姻都是无疾而终，吵架都用不着，冷着冷着，俩人就散了。what best reflects a womans taste is not her clothes and hobbies, nor the car she drives, the books she reads, or the decorations at home, but what kind of man she falls in love with. Even if she tastes elegant in other ways, if she falls in love with a bad man, she will lose everything. Not all divorces are due to cheating or quarrelling betrayal. Most marriages end without any illness. The quarrel is unnecessary and the two break up when they are cold.
二、岁月停靠在落花的彼岸，春日的阳光亲吻过的芬芳，抛洒着温暖的气息，我只能静静地凝望着你，不曾靠近你。只会在陌生的桃花香的季节里，执笔记下你的一颦一笑，你的一言一语，然后在落日的余辉里。
the years stop at the other side of the falling flowers, the fragrance of the spring sunshine kissed, throwing a warm atmosphere, I can only quietly stare at you, never close to you. Only in the strange peach blossom season, take note of your smile, your words, and then in the sunset afterglow.
三、当愤怒胜过理智，做出不假思索的事时，人充其量只是情感的奴隶。任何时候都可以开始做自己想做的事，希望你不要用年龄和其他东西，来束缚自己，年龄从来不是界限，除非你自己拿来为难自己。
When anger outweighs reason and does things without thinking, man is at best a slave to emotion. You can start doing what you want to do at any time. I hope you don use age and other things to bind yourself. Age is never the limit unless you make it difficult for yourself.
四、不要对过去紧抓不放。对于过去曾经发生的事，不管好的坏的，感觉喜乐或忿怒，都让它们走吧。过去已经结束了，把所有的注意力摆在眼前，这样你才能够积极去创造你所追寻的未来，如此活在当下是你现在唯一活得有意义的方法。
don hold fast to the past. Let go of what has happened in the past, good or bad, feeling happy or angry. The past is over. Put all your attention in front of you so that you can actively create the future you are looking for. Living in the present is the only way you can live meaningfully now.
五、人所活在世上，那是有太多的东西是我们所不能去割舍的。哪怕是一个万念俱灰的人，在临死前还可能会有一丝想存活的意念。比如看到一缕和暖的阳光，看到一只闲庭信步的蚂蚁，看到一株风中摇曳的绿草。
people live in the world, there are too many things we can not give up. Even if a person is desperate, he may have a slight desire to survive before he dies. For example, to see a ray of warm sunshine, to see an ant walking idly in the courtyard, to see a green grass swaying in the wind.
六、路口站久了，就走吧，攒够了失望就离开吧，不然怎么会遇到那个对的人呢？人若是疯癫惯了，一本正经起来也像个神经病。我不敢说和谁关系很好，因为我怕只是我一个人在自作多情。
the intersection has been standing for a long time, lets go. Save enough disappointment, lets leave. Otherwise, how can we meet the right person? If a man is mad and used to it, he is as serious as a neurosis. I dare not say who I have a good relationship with, because I am afraid that I am alone.
七、世界上最最痛苦的事情，莫过于悲伤来临，你还要故作姿态，微笑以对。一边，眼泪百折千回；一边，骄傲地仰着面孔对着天边的白云微笑。时光吹散了少年，谁的等待，恰逢花开。
the most painful thing in the world is that when sorrow comes, you have to pretend and smile. On the one hand, tears are torn back; on the other hand, proudly face up to the clouds on the horizon to smile. Time has blown away the youth, whos waiting, just in time to blossom.
八、热恋的时候，不必那么现实，失恋之后，却必须现实一点，一切已经完了，各有天涯路，多么不舍，也要放手。、其实这样的小套路有时候很有效果，怕的就是反复用，时间长了就行不通了，可回过头来想想，ta为什么不能秒回你信息？又或者ta为什么不回你信息？
When you are in love, you don have to be realistic. After losing love, you have to be realistic. Everything is over. Everything has its own way. How reluctant you are to let go. In fact, such a small routine is sometimes very effective, fear of repeated use, a long time will not work, but look back, why can TA seconds back to your information? Or why didn TA return your information?
九、美好的东西，总不会轻易获得。成长靠的从来不是豪言壮语，而是踏踏实实的努力。别再让信誓旦旦变成“说说而已”，真正去坚持一件事，时间看得见。世上除了生死，其他都是小事。不管遇到了什么烦心事，都不要自己为难自己；无论今天发生多么糟糕的事，都不要对生活失望，因为，还有明天。
Good things are never easy to get. Growth is never based on bold words, but on down-to-earth efforts. Don let vows become "just talk" anymore. Really stick to one thing. Time is visible. Everything in the world is trivial except life and death. No matter what troubles you encounter, don embarrass yourself; no matter how bad things happen today, don disappoint in life, because there is tomorrow.
十、成熟的表现不是虚伪地跟讨厌的人陪着笑保持和平，也不是孩子气地撕逼决裂，而是自然地保持距离，不委屈自己，不伤害他人。柔情似水，佳期如梦，忍顾鹊桥归路。两情若是长久时，又岂待朝朝暮暮。
Mature performance is not to keep peace with disgusting people laughing hypocritically, nor to tear apart childishly, but to keep distance naturally, not to hurt oneself or others. The tender feeling is like water, the good time is like a dream, and the patronage Que Bridge returns home. If love lasts for a long time, how can it stay in the twilight?
十一、我把爱情，把记忆都还给你，我什么都不要了，你把心还给我好不好？孤单，是你心里没有人！寂寞，是你没有在意关心你的人！有时沉默也是一种躲避现实的理由。抱怨是一件最没意义的事情。如果实在难以忍受周围的环境，那就暗自努力练好本领，然后跳出那个圈子。成见不如理解，抱怨不如放下。
Ill give you back all my love and memory. I don want anything. Would you mind giving me back? Lonely, is your heart no one! Loneliness is that you don care about people who care about you! Sometimes silence is also a reason to avoid reality. Complaint is the most meaningless thing. If you really can stand the surroundings, try to practice your skills secretly, and then jump out of the circle. Prejudice is better than understanding, complaint is better than putting down.
十二、天再高又怎样，踮起脚尖就更接近阳光；路再远又何妨，奋起脚步总能到达远方。没人在乎你怎样在深夜痛哭，也没人在乎你辗转反侧的要熬几个秋。外人只看结果，自己独撑过程。等我们都明白了这个道理，便不会再在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰。
No matter how high the sky is, it will be closer to the sunshine if you stand on your toes. No matter how far the road is, you can always reach the distance if you stand up. Nobody cares how you cry in the middle of the night, or how many autumns you toss and turn. Outsiders only look at the results and support the process by themselves. When we all understand this truth, we will no longer pretend to be in front of others and talk about it everywhere for comfort.
十三、抱怨，是一种负能量，犹如搬起石头砸自己的脚，于人无益，于己不利，于事无补。
Complaint is a kind of negative energy. It is like lifting a stone and throwing it at ones feet. It is not good for others, for oneself and for nothing.
十四、想来想去，还是努力赚钱更靠谱，不然心情不好时，只能买两瓶啤酒一袋鸡爪在路边嗷嗷哭，努力赚钱的话，就能躺在幽美的山中温泉里敷面膜止不住眼泪。努力赚钱我还可以去纽约哭、去伦敦哭、去巴黎哭、去罗马哭、边浪边哭，想怎么哭就怎么哭。
think about it, or make efforts to make money more reliable. Otherwise, when you are in a bad mood, you can only buy two bottles of beer, a bag of chicken feet crying on the roadside, and make efforts to make money, then you can lie in the beautiful mountains and hot springs, and apply the mask to stop tears. To make money, I can go to New York to cry, London to cry, Paris to cry, Rome to cry, and the waves to cry as I want.
十五、每当有个女孩离开我，我都会祝福她能比我幸福。其实我真的好想告诉她，跟我在一起就能比我幸福。很多时候，迷茫怀疑人生，假设生活，静下来后才发现，所有的一切莫不过是生命的符号，有时需要波澜不惊，只需适合自己最真的内心。
Whenever a girl leaves me, I wish her happiness. In fact, I really want to tell her that being with me can be happier than me. Many times, confused doubts about life, assume life, after calming down, we find that everything is nothing more than a symbol of life, sometimes need not be alarmed, just suitable for their most real heart.
十六、有一天，我们竟然再次坐着聊聊天。正常寒暄，话题顺畅接续，你夸我独立自主有理想，我说你从来都是好榜样。我忽然比彼此都杳无音信的时候还要难过。这是我想象的结局中最好的一种。这是我想象的结局中最坏的一种。这就是结局。
one day, we even sat and chatted again. Normal greetings, smooth continuation of topics, you praise my independence and ideals, I said you are always a good example. Suddenly, I felt more sad than when I didn hear from each other. This is the best outcome I can imagine. This is the worst kind of outcome I can imagine.
